Oh, did you make me a cake?
Sounds good…but I think I’ll try making my own.
pain! That’s a little harsh, isn’t it?
And that brings us to today’s story!
Read on to see if you think this guy acted like an a**hole to his wife on his birthday.
“For my (32M) birthday, I like a particular kind of cake: a chocolate-covered cherry cake. So my mother or father always made it for me.
After moving here, I started making my own. I’ve been married to her wife for less than a year, but we’ve been together for 6 years, so she knows everything about this cake, during that time we’ve baked it together, my parents made it, and I made it myself. I made it. I never asked or expected her to do so.
Before my birthday this year my wife asked me what kind of cake I wanted. She’s always the same type, but she said she doesn’t feel like baking bread. She told her I don’t have to worry about her baking because I can bake myself, she asked me again and I gave her the same answer.
The day before my birthday, I came home from work and gathered all the ingredients to make the cake. I go to get something from the fridge and there are two cheesecakes with “Happy Birthday” written between them. I love ‘, so I thought I’d change it this year.
I won’t say it, but she eats cheesecake at least once a month. I said thank you to her and they look great but I really want a cake that I like so I was going to make mine.
She got pissed off and yelled that we’d ruined her attempt to make things easier by not having to bake and bring a cake that everyone would love. Days have passed and she is still acting cold and callous at parties. Usually I move mountains and heavens to give her what she wants for her birthday and celebrate it the way she wants.
Aita? “
So let’s see what Reddit users have to say.
One reader said he was in the NTA and was pretty confused by the situation.

Photo credit: Reddit
Another individual made a good point: too much cake can’t ruin a party!

Photo credit: Reddit
And this reader said he’s in the NTA and his wife didn’t do this to make it easier for both of them…

Photo credit: Reddit